1 more rehearsal pic, story, and some updates

Here is my future sister in law (she is engaged to my brother in law) and our good friend P at the rehearsal. You guys thought it was fun because my dad wore khaki shorts and tennis shoes? Just wanted to give you more pictures of the fun!

Someone also asked if Hubby made it to drunk town. Well I thought he might be mad if I told this story, but I have told plenty of people. The rehearsal video is hilarious because Hubby was in drunk town before dinner. We had the rehearsal at 11am and went back to my parents' house right after to hang out and have appetizers. Hubby had beers.

In the video you see me ask if I have to sit next to him at dinner. We are a couple a little more on the Vicky Don (real housewives of oc reference) couple spectrum. We spend 24/7 together we don't need to sit next to each other and sleep together every night. Anyways, we are on video during dinner talking about making a speech to thank everyone for coming and you here me say, "Come on drunky". Then during the speech you can tell he is tanked and after you here my family talking about how he is faded or something.

Then a little later I got the video camera and was recording stuff and Hubby walks over to me and we try to be cute and funny. We point the camera at ourselves and kiss. Let me mention at this point Hubby and I were on the grass and he had flip flops on. Right after I walk over to some of the wedding party and he walks inside the house. When you walk in my parents' front door there is a tile floor. Are you seeing where this is going yet? Drunk town + wet grassy flip flops + tile floor? Hubby totally ate it and cut his hand trying to save himself by grabbing on to the door handle. Someone came outside and says, "Hubby fell! He cut himself!" Of course I'm thinking great, we are going to have to take him to the hospital to get stitches! He was ok but his mom and I made him switch to water at that point!

Well, today is my friday! My mom comes to town tomorrow morning! We are going shopping and to see Dear John! So excited! So I will be a little absent from blogging. I will have a post on valentine's day because I can't miss our one year engagiversary! Yes, my mom will be here on valentine's day. Just what every husband wants, to spend his 1 year engagiversary on valentine's day with his mother in law! We are going to have a romantic dinner with my mom and then send her on a plane! We talked last night about getting each other gifts and we decided the laptop we just bought because our other one DIED! is our gift to each other! So romantic!

I forgot to tell you guys that one of our friends said How I Met Your Mother got signed for another season! So this season isn't the last! We also discussed how one of our friends thinks their mom is Robin. We told him he is dumb the dad keeps saying Aunt Robin. Someone else thought it was Rachel Bilson and we said um no are you a bad listener? The mom is Rachel Bilson's roommate! Duh!

Oh! And I found out yesterday, one of my best friends and bridesmaid S is having a boy! Poor pregnant lady keeps getting sick so the doctor gave her something to help her really bad cold. Plus they are moving this weekend to their new condo! So we are hoping they can join us for lunch or dinner Sunday and we can see pictures! So crazy to think how much has happened in a year! I guess I'll get into that on the valentine's day post!

An experience I would like to forget!

I follow Mama Kat over at http://www.mamakatslosinit.com/. She does writers workshop posts and this is my first attempt!

I am choosing to write about an experience that I would like to shake from my memory.

I knew when we got married that the "when are you having kids" thing would start. It started when we got engaged. I had no idea how intense it was going to be!

I think the decision to have a child should be between you and your husband. I don't want all my family and friends to know whether or not we are "trying". I also am not going to tell people if I am pregnant until I am in my second trimester. This was a choice my cousin made and I thought it was a good one. I don't want to announce on facebook that I am pregnant and then if god forbid something happens have to announce that on facebook too. I also don't want to say that we are going to wait a year or two and then something might happen and have everyone know my child is an accident! I have tried explaining this to my amazing friends, S and B. Remember S recently found out she is pregnant and announced it on facebook.

The memory I would like to shake and keep from happening again happened this weekend. Because I am feeling this overwhelming pressure from everyone about having children, I was considering giving up alcohol and caffeine. I thought this would stop people from obsessing. When I found out S was pregnant I told her I was going to give up alcohol and caffeine in support of her. I have been pretty good, had a few sips of coke with lunch at the mall because I couldn't resist. But she had green tea, she didn't know it had caffeine! Anyways, when we all went out to a bar for Halloween I reminded the crew that I will not be drinking. They freaked out! "You are pregnant! Or you think you are!" Um no, looked to my husband for support. He told them no she is not. The peer pressure continued. I was so glad I didn't cave in like usual. It made the night a little less fun, I will admit. But looking back, if I had chose to drink and have fun, there probably would have been no one to support Stacy. The kareoke was really loud and she was not feeling good and tired. The girls were sober and bored and over the loud, bad singing, so since we couldn't stand outside (second hand smoke) we went and sat in the car. If I had been drinking I wouldn't have wanted to leave and I would have been loud and obnoxious like the boys when this poor pregnant sober lady was driving us home. I also probably would have been hungover the next day. Woke up so happy with my decision.

The moment I want to shake from memory is when B continued with her are you pregnant or trying to get pregnant questions. She literally asked me if I was on birth control! Is that any of your business? No!

Any advice for how to get this to stop? Ugh! Shaking this from memory now!