It is late. These are some things I wrote down today when I was thinking about the different hats that I wear. Not sure if it is possible to be all of these things.
Mom- Be around: help in classroom, be home after school, do cool experiments, help with homework, make treats, take to practice, see all performances at school, look put together, make lunch
Wife- Be supportive, make life easier, make life more fun, make dinner, laugh together, travel together, dream together, parent together, try new restaurants, make lunch
Housekeeper- Get house clean: if someone stops by and takes a tour of the house it is clean, nice decor, sometimes holiday decor, occasional spring or fall deep clean, have a place for everything, have a system for paper clutter